St.
Valentine's Day has roots in several different legends that have
found their way to us through the ages. One of the earliest
popular symbols of the day is Cupid(爱神丘比特), the
Roman god of love, who is represented by the image of a young boy
with bow and arrow.
Three hundred years after the death of Jesus Christ, the Roman
emperors still demanded that everyone believe in the Roman gods.
Valentine, a Christian priest, had been thrown in prison for his
teachings. On February 14, Valentine was beheaded(斩首), not
only because he was a Christian, but also because he had performed
a miracle. He supposedly cured the jailer's daughter of her
blindness. The night before he was executed, he wrote the jailer's
daughter a farewell letter, signing it "From Your
Valentine." Another legend tells us that this same Valentine,
well-loved by all, received notes to his jail cell from children
and friends who missed him.
Another Valentine was an Italian bishop who lived at about the
same time, AD 200. He was imprisoned because he secretly married
couples, contrary to the laws of the Roman emperor. Some legends
say he was burned at the stake.
February 14 was also a Roman holiday, held in honor of a
goddess. Young men randomly chose the name of a young girl to
escort to the festivities. The custom of choosing a sweetheart on
this date spread through Europe in the Middle Ages, and then to
the early American colonies. Throughout the ages, people also
believed that birds picked their mates on February 14!
In AD 496 Sain Pope Gelasius I named February 14 as
"Valentine's Day". Although it's not an official
holiday, most Americans observe this day.
Whatever the odd mixture of origins, St. Valentine's Day is now
a day for sweethearts. It is the day that you show your friend or
loved one that you care. You can send candy to someone you think
is special. Or you can send roses, the flower of love. Most people
send "valentines," a greeting card named after the notes
that St. Valentine received in jail. Valentines can be
sentimental, romantic and heartfelt(真心真意的). They can
be funny and friendly. If the sender is shy, valentines can be
anonymous.
Americans of all ages love to send and receive valentines.
Handmade valentines created by cutting hearts out of colored
paper, show that a lot of thought was put into making them
personal. Valentines can be heart-shaped, or have hearts, the
symbol of love, on them. In elementary schools children make
valentines for their classmates and put them in a large decorated
box, similar to a mailbox. On February 14, the teacher opens the
box and distributes the valentines to each student. After the
students read their valentines they have a small party with
refreshments.
For teenagers and adults, major newspapers throughout the
country have a Valentine's Day offer. Anyone can send in a
message, for a small fee of course, destined for a would-be
sweetheart, a good friend, an acquaintance or even a spouse of
fifty years. The message is printed in a special section of the
newspaper on February 14.
China's Valentine's
Day(中国的情人节)
The seventh day of the
seventh lunar month
The seventh day of the seventh lunar
month is the Seventh Evening Festival, also known as the
"Double Seven Festival".
Origins: According to a romantic
Chinese fairy tale, the cowherd and the weaving girl meet on the
evening of the Double Seven. As such, the festival is also known
as China's Valentine's Day. The fairy tale has it that the milky
way separates the hard-working cowherd and the weaving girl, who
are very deeply in love with each other. It is only on the Seventh
Evening Festival that they can meet. On that evening, the world's
magpies form a bridge over the Milky Way so that the lovers can
cross over and meet. This beautiful tale has its origins in the
Han Dynasty (206 BC - AD 220). All Chinese people are told the
story when they are children. The festival is also based on an
annual astronomical phenomenon. Every year on the seventh day of
the seventh lunar month, two particular stars are bright in the
night sky and shine until the sun rises. One of the stars is
thought to be the weaving girl and the other the cowherd.
Begging for skills: People have a
custom of begging the weaving girl to teach them needlework and
weaving skills on the Double Seven Festival. Girls hold
weaving and needlework competitions on
the day of the festival to see who has the quickest mind and the
most skillful hands. As such, the Seventh Evening Festival is also
called the "Begging for Skills Festival" or the
"Daughters' Festival."
Praying for a good harvest: Another
custom of the Seventh Evening Festival is praying to the Milky Way
for a good harvest. Some places hold "Qingmiao" or
"Young Crops" parties.